Hey toddler mama, How are you seriously doing today? 

Mmm, yeah, me too; I’m tired.

 Currently, I’m in that weird shift where my toddler isn't interested in napping midday or at all. He’s in his "No, I don’t want to nap  era. And honestly, I’m unwell. Part of me knows he's transitioning into a big boy and hitting milestone after milestone, and that good thing doesn’t get me wrong, but the other part of me is coming to the reality that my baby of the house is no longer going to be the baby of the house, and I wasn’t prepared for how fast these moments go. My oldest is six and practically the size of a preteen, and boy, do those years truly fly? I’m in a weird stage right now where baby fever is getting stronger. I don't know if it’s my hormones giving me baby fever or if it’s just me missing or reminiscing on my kids first words, their first steps, or the irresistible baby smell. Regardless of what it is, can I just say you’re never going to be prepared for these days? So cherish every moment that they’re still so little and maybe give them a limitless, tighter hug tonight.

Hey mamas,

The back-to-school season is a time for parents to test their organizational skills, patience, and sanity. For moms, this time is filled with a whirlwind of emotions, ranging from excitement to panic. The back-to-school madness includes the Great Uniform Hunt, the Battle of the Lunchbox, the Homework Horror, the Morning Mayhem, the Morning Mayhem, and the Drop-Off Drama. The Great Uniform Hunt involves moms searching for the perfect size for their growing child, while the Lunchbox battle involves packing a balanced meal for their picky eaters. The Homework Horror involves moms becoming part-time tutors, part-time cheerleaders, and full-time comedians to help their children focus on their assignments. The Morning Mayhem involves moms juggling multiple tasks, such as getting everyone out of bed and dressed, dressing one child while making breakfast for another, and dropping off the kids at school. The Drop-Off Drama is a tearful goodbye, leaving moms questioning if they made a mistake by sending them off to school.

But don't fret, it's okay to feel overwhelmed during the back-to-school season. Embrace the chaos, laugh off the mishaps, and remember that you're not alone in this adventure. Preparing kids for school can be anxiety-inducing, but it's also an adventure filled with love, growth, and countless hilarious moments.

Hey Mamas,

Can I ask you all something? How are you keeping your little ones busy this summer? Today, I decided to be a fun Mom. I transformed into a jumping Matt, a WWE referee, and an honorary member of the teenage New Mutant Ninja Turtles, all before noon.

But let me share something important with you. It's not about being the "fun" mom; your little ones don't care about how "fun" you are. They only care that you're there, fully present with them. It's about the laughter and the bond you create, which in turn becomes cherished memories. That's what being a mother is truly about.

Don't stress yourself out thinking, "Am I fun enough?" Don't compare yourself to what you see on social media, where families seem to take countless trips to amazing places like Disney. Maybe right now, a trip to Disney isn't feasible for you, and that's absolutely okay. The true joy comes from simple moments at home with your child. Coloring, drawing, painting pictures, and reading books together. It's about being there, not just physically in the same room or house, but truly connecting with your children. It's about understanding what they love and exploring those interests with them. Show genuine interest in their passions. That's what being there is all about. That's what being a real "fun" mom means.

Hey Mamas, 

In the world of motherhood, everyday tasks like feeding a toddler can turn into a comedy of errors. Parents often struggle with the Mealtime Dance, where they prepare a meal that looks like a 5 star meal but is met with "eww yucky". We become masters of disguise, hiding vegetables in various dishes, but our toddlers see through their clever tricks and declare they don't like green stuff. The Food Refusal Tango is another common issue, as toddlers have an unpredictable taste buds that can reject unfamiliar or suspicious-looking foods. One day, they devour a plate of mac and cheese without question, while the next day, they categorically reject it as if it were the world's worst culinary creation. They also have an extraordinary talent for turning snack time into an all-day affair, making it difficult for parents to plan meals. Moms should remember that picky eating is just a phase that most kids eventually outgrow. In the meantime, embrace the chaos, laugh at the absurdity, and cherish the messy memories. There's nothing quite like the love and laughter shared around the dinner table, even if it involves a few food-related mishaps along the way.

Hey Mamas, This is a story of transformation.

If you were to ask me who I was in the past couple of years, I wouldn't have had an answer. I was trapped in a cycle of anxiety, depression, overwork, and exhaustion. I was simply running on fumes. I believe that most, if not all of you, can relate to the stress of 2020. But even before that, I experienced the heartbreak of a miscarriage. And during 2020, amidst a global pandemic, I brought my second son into the world. Perhaps there are other mothers here who also have 2020 babies. It was a challenging time, going to doctor's appointments alone, unable to have the father by my side, struggling to breathe through the mask, all while worrying about bringing a new life into such uncertain times. "Stressful" doesn't even begin to describe it. My anxiety and depression grew, and I found myself overwhelmed, overworked, and sleep-deprived. I felt broken, constantly crying and praying for guidance. But then, I made the decision to take a step back and rest. I took a leave from work. And though the anxiety and depression were still present, I knew I needed to push forward. After a couple of weeks, I returned to the workforce, starting a new job that required long hours and a lengthy commute. I would come home late, only to face the challenges of a toddler who wouldn't sleep through the night. Mornings were early, rushing to get my older son ready for school before heading off to work. It was an overwhelming and stressful time for me. And just when I thought things couldn't get any harder, the dynamics changed once again, and I had to take another leave from work. I had to leave my job. It was a tough decision, but it was necessary for the well-being of my children, myself, and my now-husband. During that time, however, something beautiful happened. I connected with God. It felt right, and I found a sense of calm and peace. My anxiety began to subside. It was a new perspective on life for me. I realized that I had to be stripped of everything to truly know and connect with God. The journey hasn't been easy, and I'm still on it, but time and time again, no matter the obstacles I faced, God showed me that He was there for me, unwavering and constant. So what's the point of sharing all of this?

I want to tell you, fellow momma, that you will get through it. With God, we can overcome anything. Recently, I embarked on a five-day fast. It was a way for me to drown out the distractions of the world and truly connect with God. I was seeking a breakthrough. And what I discovered is that He is the solution, the way, the rescuer, everything I needed. He is the same God who freed His people from the stronghold of Egypt with His mighty arm (Exodus 12). God has the power to free you from your depression and anxiety. All you need to do is trust Him. I understand that it may be difficult to trust in someone you can't physically see, especially when times are tough. But I'm here to ask you, what do you have to lose? Take a leap of faith today, trust in God, and witness the transformative power it can have on your life.

Hey mamas,

Being a Christian mom is a rewarding yet challenging experience, but it's essential to strengthen relationships with other Christian moms. By attending local church groups (I'm still working on this one)and events, engaging in online Christian mom communities, joining mom support groups, engaging in meaningful conversations, and hosting gatherings or playdates, we can build a supportive network that uplifts and encourages one another. These relationships not only strengthen our faith but also serve as shining examples for our children, illustrating the power of a nurturing and faithful community. By actively seeking opportunities to connect, engaging in meaningful conversations, and fostering a supportive network, we can build a thriving community that uplifts and encourages one another. By doing so, we can serve as shining examples for our children and contribute to the growth and development of our faith.

Hey Mamas,

The next time you get an urge to start rage cleaning, Put on some praise and worship music , its a game changer!.

Incorporating gospel music into rage cleaning can transform the process into a transformative and uplifting experience. The lyrics of gospel music can inspire us to change our mindset, turning cleaning into an act of worship. The energetic rhythms and melodies of gospel music invigorate our spirits, motivating us to move faster and work harder. This can helps us clean effectively and uplift our mood. . Additionally, gospel music connects us with God, reminding us of our spiritual journey and the importance of nurturing our homes as sacred spaces. By harnessing the power of gospel music in rage cleaning routines, we can create a haven of peace and serenity, inviting God's presence into our environment.

Hey Mamas, How are you today? lets talk about this beautiful journey of love & Faith.

Motherhood is a sacred calling that allows us to grow in faith and love. By embracing God's gift, finding strength in His Word, practicing gratitude, building a supportive community, and praying for our children, we can honor God's presence in our journey. By cherishing each moment and focusing on shaping our children's lives for His glory, we cultivate a grateful heart and deepen our understanding of God's love and faithfulness. Building a supportive community is essential for connecting with other Christian moms, sharing our joys and struggles, and finding encouragement and wisdom. Praying for our children's well-being, character development, and relationship with God demonstrates our faith in action, allowing us to partner with Him in shaping their lives and entrusting their future to His loving care. Celebrating God's grace in motherhood is a powerful way to nurture and raise our children for His glory. By embracing God's gift, seeking strength in His Word, practicing gratitude, building a supportive community, and praying for our children, we can honor God's presence and grow in faith and love.

Any Millennial Mamas in here practicing Gentle Parenting?  Listen, I feel for you!

Gentle parenting is a rewarding journey for parents, but it also comes with challenges. 👀

To navigate these moments, it is essential to cultivate empathy, practice self-regulation, use age-appropriate language, and embrace positive reinforcement. By focusing on empathy, understanding, and effective communication, we can create a nurturing environment that fosters emotional growth and strengthens the parent-child bond. By focusing on self-regulation, maintaining emotional composure, and using age-appropriate language, we can empower our children to understand our expectations and express their needs in a healthy manner. By recognizing and reinforcing positive behavior, we can support their emotional development. By focusing on patience, understanding, and a commitment to gentle parenting, we can navigate the challenges of toddlerhood with love, empathy, and respect, ultimately fostering a nurturing environment for our children to thrive. Even with these tips I've been able to gather for you, gentle parenting can still be challenging, but we can get there. May the gentle parenting life be good to you!